Oregon had six five-star recruits. Indiana had zero. Oregon entered with one of the most talented rosters in the country. Indiana’s ranked 72nd nationally—behind teams that didn’t even make a bowl game. Final score: Indiana 56, Oregon 22. When quarterback Fernando Mendoza tried to explain what just happened, he reached for the repeated motif: “We’re…
Keep readingI haven’t brought this up in years. But it keeps coming back to me. I’ve told parts of this story before, only to a few I trust, and usually with some hesitation. I don’t want people to think I’m delusional or pretentious or unapproachable. It’s just strange in a way that doesn’t invite easy interpretation.…
Keep readingI’ve been thinking about a journey, The one beneath the story told, Not the tale you think you know. The one that’s been there, Long before I grew old. It took me back to that summer: Twenty years old writing at dawn Praying in basements, Journaling for recovery, Buying tents for strangers who were just…
Keep readingSomething strange has been happening inside of me. Or maybe “strange” isn’t the right word. “New” is the better descriptor. I feel stable. Like . . . genuinely, almost boringly, stable. My head is clearer. My heart doesn’t swing wildly between apocalyptic despair and grandiose mission anymore. Perhaps this is what people mean by maturity—not…
Keep readingThey say some of us will never “grow up,” and they mean this not in a literal sense. Physically speaking, most of us stop “growing up” by late teens, early twenties. The colloquial phrase is often used in reference to maturity and wisdom, an inner kind of growth. If we were to pin down where…
Keep readingIn a world of endless choices and zero certainties, one law student’s questioning the other day changed my afternoon. I met Josie for an hour last week. She’s twenty-two, first year law student, searching for something she couldn’t quite name. We sat in my office with the door open, family photos visible, handwritten Bible flashcards…
Keep readingI taught the people who saved my life today. Not a motivational speech. Not a “look how far I’ve come” recovery story. An actual legal presentation: “From Both Sides: Legal Planning Essentials For TBI Survivors—By a TBI Survivor.” Estate planning. Powers of attorney. Special needs trusts. The technical stuff that keeps families from losing everything…
Keep readingThere are some moments in life you never—ever—expect to happen. This is one of those moments… This keynote happened at the convergence of so many threads in my life: my traumatic brain injury, my journey through law school and fatherhood, my work as an attorney, and the deeper questions about identity that have haunted and…
Keep readingThis morning, I had the honor of preaching at FBC Charlestown. Pastor Shea and I had been discussing this opportunity for about two years, and it was evident that God’s providence aligned everything for this specific day. The congregation was warm and welcoming, and sharing my story alongside the truths of Psalm 22 felt like…
Keep readingA year ago today my first book, Saving the Subject: How I Found You When I Almost Lost Me, was published. I still remember opening the first box of copies and feeling stunned. For weeks I kept picking it up, flipping through pages, rereading sections over and over again. Just trying to convince myself it…
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